Earlier in the year, I remember talking about the digital divide and how technology divides families. Family is a very important interpersonal relationship, if not
the most. People usually spend more time with their families when they are younger than when they are grown up. When they grow up, they have their own lives, have new friends, and possibly families of their own.
During the time when we are young, we spend time with our families in a variety of ways...dinners, trips, shopping, home evenings, etc. Back in the old days - before the digital divide - families would do more things together like sing songs, play games, or just converse. Enter the digital era...
Now, instead of spending time with family kids are either on their computers, chatting it up with friends or playing video games, or totally tuned out with their iPods on.
The main point that I would like to get at with this post, is the isolation that people - particularly younger people - put themselves in with their iPods (or other forms of mp3 players).
As I am writing this, I am sitting in the Box Canyon Lodge in Ouray Colorado. I came down here with my family yesterday, and it was about a 6 hour drive. 4 of those hours, I had headphones on. My sister had hers on for probably 5. I thought about this subject while we were going through Grand Junction... I thought back to every road trip I had been on with my family, and from what I can remember, as long as I have had a portable music player, I have listened to it the majority of the time, if not the entire time. Ever since my first Walkman at the age of 10, complete with Nirvana tape...haha. After that it was the Sony Discman, and my only memory of that on a trip was going to Las Vegas when I was 16, with only two cd's. But the whole time, I had my headphones on. Why? I don't know exactly, but it has something to do with the digital divide, and me wanting to isolate myself for some reason. It does make the trip go by faster, but I think it goes deeper than that...
I notice people around campus, as well as throughout the city with headphones on a lot too, even if it is just in between classes, or walking to work/school. Maybe it offers some sort of escape to be able to listen to whatever you want, whenever you want.
Anyway, the point I am getting at is: When we have the option of being tuned out from our families, and focusing on our own personal music choice, we take it. It must be something about our generation that likes to be isolated, and in our own world - in a sense. Unlike generations before us, we like to do what we like - and we actually do it instead of talking about it.
Maybe we don't spend as much time talking with our families as generations before us, but it doesn't mean our connections aren't as strong. It goes back to my philosophy of quality over quantity...
I am not sure exactly why we choose to isolate ourselves, maybe it is because we want to explore what else is out there, or maybe we want a change of pace. If anyone has some insight on the subject, please reply.